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  • FAREWELL

    FAREWELL

    #FARE WELL

    When the little sheep was lost
    The shepherd went all out in search
    When the son left home
    The father waited for him to return

    The sheep was lost but the son left
    The shepherd searched but the father waited
    The father nurses his wound day n night
    Until the son returns

    It’s no small pain in a father’s heart
    That a son or daughter nursed to maturity neglected him
    The father prays:
    wherever you go whatever you do
    Remain a believer
    And quickly come to your senses.

    The father would come for me he said
    But no one rescues an unbroken fish
    The prodigal son soon exhausted all revelations
    He used up all rhema received in training
    His gifts became dull and has no one to bless but pigs

    He was thirsty but given mud
    He was hungry but fed with poison
    Who else has the word of life but father.
    Who else cares truly like father
    Where else is home like ZION
    He made an haste, returned to his senses and returned home.

    Not too old to be a slave he said
    Not too old to start all over he said
    Not too offensive to be forgiven
    But what love and joy awaits his homecoming.

    Ife Adetona
    ©2019

  • Leah Shaibu

    Leah Shaibu

    #LeahShaibu

    Dead or alive
    Tortured or maimed
    Slaved or free
    I can’t say
    But I know, an hero you are

    Elections were done
    Appointments shared
    And many denied their faith to qualify
    Some traveled Mecca to make prove
    Whether they lost or won, they lost their Christ
    But you stood, a martyr

    Your age mates left Christ to mingle
    They claimed it was peer pressure
    But you survived gun pressure
    The old wanted money at all cost
    You embraced slavery for your faith
    You are my hero

    I wish you well
    I pray you health & freedom
    A golden sermon you are to many
    Much loves!

  • Pastor’s Diary

    Pastor’s Diary

    Sandalili Sandalili Sandalili Sandalili
    I’m a lawyer in my country…
    That’s all I wanted to be
    My childhood dream

    Career is all I intended to pursue
    And to finance the kingdom from my income
    Not to “live” on people’s tithe, offerings or gifts.
    But suddenly, my heart rang

    He called
    With much persuasion
    I obeyed,
    Here I am, slained on His altar

    In my hopeless state, I’m tasked to give hopes
    In my poverty, I’m called to make others rich
    In my sickness, I’m asked to heal
    In my mourning, I’m demanded to give comfort
    And in all, I’m not permitted to show my inner pains

    I had my will, I had my passion
    I had my skills, I had my plans
    Tarshish I wanted, Nineveh I am
    Lecturing I loved but here preaching
    Lab coat I desired but here in cassock
    Seed, I wanted to give but here, raising one.

    Don’t give me pity but empathy
    I’m not a beggar
    Don’t give me sympathy but understanding
    I’m not complaining
    Don’t toss crumbs to me from your tables
    I am not the poor Lazarus
    Don’t troll me for my Abrahamic blessings,
    I’m not a politician you elected

    I’m here only to help you
    I die daily saving you
    Poured out as a drink offering
    Fufiling all in the volume of the book written of me.

    Digest my doctrines,
    Grow in understanding
    Live holy and make it to heaven
    That my joy may be full.

    Ife Adetona
    ©2019

  • DO NOT DO SUICIDE

    DO NOT DO SUICIDE

    Dear Ayanfe,

    My child, I didn’t tell you
    Life is not always pleasant
    It gives you a road with bumps
    It serves you beans with stones
    Life dresses you with heavy garment

    My child, I didn’t tell you
    Life will be pleasant if you master the present.
    Several have traveled this road inspite the bumps
    You too can make it to destination
    The garment won’t be too heavy if you wait for your time.
    Pick the stones and cook your beans

    My child, I didn’t tell you
    If you are wrong and I beat, I’m not wicked
    If you are hurt, my painful balm is meant to heal
    If you fail, I may scream but my love is undiluted
    I never meant it when I say I would disown you.

    My child, I didn’t tell you
    I will not always be here
    It could be short or long
    I may be good or bad
    But you have your own life to live

    My child, I didnt tell you
    No challenge of life is new
    No situation is permanent
    History were once the present
    With time this will also pass and fade

    My child, I didn’t tell you
    If you fall, it’s because you are moving
    If you fall, fall forward
    If you fall, rise again
    Because only you can stop you.

    My child, don’t do suicide,
    It is not a cure but a curse
    Find a reason to live and live for it
    The end of the end is fire or peace
    The giver of life would judge if you kill it

    My son, I didn’t tell you
    Make good friends and confidants
    If one fail, make another
    You are imperfect yourself
    Always talk, say it out, scream it loud
    Depression can kill one not two

    My child, serve your Creator
    That is the first destiny of man
    And He is the best reason to live for
    Don’t be mad at Him, He is always right
    Right to help, if you seek Him

    My child, remember your parents
    They suffered to raise you
    There is atleast one person that love you
    They will sorrow if you go
    You have another chance if you choose to live

    I rebuke from you depression
    I rebuke from you death thought
    You will live the fullness of your days
    And fulfil your dreams
    My child, don’t do suicide

    Ife Adetona
    ©2019

  • OLUWAFIFEDAMILOLA By MotherTreasure

    OLUWAFIFEDAMILOLA By MotherTreasure

    I fondly call you IFE
    You are just the definition of love
    Your hardwork is a fragrance
    Your hardwork is my motivation to stay with you
    I cherish your hardwork more than anything in this world
    Even when the future was so unclear I know your hardwork is capable of clearing the way

    You have asked me several times what I see in you that made me say “YES” to you, ‘honey’ its hardwork
    I can’t thank you enough for being deliberate about success
    Times has been very tough
    The going had not been all rosy
    What kept me strong is when I see you work
    Your hardwork swept me off my feet
    And I’m so much in love with it

    There are things I wished I had all along which I don’t have
    But seeing you labour at planting, I know our harvest can’t be little
    Why do I always have these feelings that you have combined my work with yours
    So much that I sleep without worry.

    I encouraged you to resign into the full time ministry when you informed me of God’s instruction
    Not because I was not scared of hunger
    Not because I was not scared that I may not have some things as I might wanted
    Not because I was not scared that I may not have the shoes and clothes and even the kind of house that I desired.

    But I was never scared of starting from the scratch with you
    Because I know there is no other better time to start ploughing.
    I was fully aware of the price and I know I will have to endure for a while but one thing is certain
    If you didn’t yield to God’s instruction we will suffer for only God knows when till we decide to obey and that’s if it won’t be too late
    I know that our allocation is in His instruction
    And if we obey promptly, after we have suffered for a while He will establish us.

    #Dedicated to my Hardworking Husband IfeAdetona

    From your one and only AYANFE
    ©Elizabeth Ife-Adetona
    #MotherTreasure
    30/08/2020

  • “I will be going off Social Media”- Pst. Ife Adetona

    “I will be going off Social Media”- Pst. Ife Adetona

    Not be me, I dey here. Whenever I hear young people make this announcement, two things come to mind. If they announced it publicly, it is childish and it was an invitation to a “pity party”. They want you to ask “why”. On the other hand, whether they make it public or not, it sounds to me like, “help, I am depressed”.

    I have had to speak with some people who are very close to me and the reason they usually state is: “I have an academic challenge, I want some focus”. ” I am depressed”, “I want to retreat and stay off my phone”, “God spoke to me to do so”.

    If your world is built around the social media. If that is where you impart lives. If that is where you see your friends and sometimes peep upon your enemies. If that is where your neighbours are. Not mentioning the educational or spiritual energy you derive, if you go off social media, it could be the first stage of depression which is called “withdrawal”. If your reason is not because of some external rules either in a school or in the military, then you may have to check it very well.

    If you think you’re growing addicted or excessive, put moderation in place. If it is affecting your social skills and interaction with the physical world, you need to look into moderation instead of a short term or long term withdrawal. There could also be a need to stay off some social media apps, especially the “gossip” apps. Yes, some apps directly affect us and some apps are just there for you to scroll up and down to know what is trendy and listen to every gossip. Those, you may stay away fully or limit the time spent on it.

    For those who say: for retreat’s sake or that God asked them to do that. Think of yourself as a salt. Remember God’s word: if salt stays aloof, it is worthless but if it makes itself available to interact with other ingredients, it is indispensable. Think about it.

    Before the advent of phones, people do say that they received words from God to isolate themselves for a short to a long period. They just go away from the reach of people. While we know God could say that to some people, most of those cases we heard of always end up that it was the devil. Huhmmm, if you study the history of some religions and cults, that was how they started. Some started with God and ended with jinns. Some just go off that way. Some vibrant brothers ended up weird as a result of these “staying off voice”.

    If you think you’ve got such instruction, you may want to ask yourself the “salt question” seven times and check your spirit again and again.

    As for great men of God who aren’t on social media. They are on social media, they only make it private. Secondly, many of them started their ministry before the advent of social media so, they didn’t build their ministry around it. If yours is built around it, imagine staying off as a pastor staying off his church to retreat.

  • RUSSIA VS UKRAINE WAR II- Pst Ife Adetona

    RUSSIA VS UKRAINE WAR II- Pst Ife Adetona

    Russia did believe that when they roll their tanks into Ukraine, they will surrender or flex some muscles but in a week or two, it will all be over. I guess they thought it would work out just like when the Taliban took over Afghanistan in 2021 or when Russia seized Crimea in 2014.

    Don’t dare a man ready to die fighting. Zelensky, Ukraine’s President said they will not surrender until the last man is dead. They defended their territory.

    The USA called the President, “let’s fly you out of Ukraine to a safe place”. He replied: ” I don’t need a ride, give me weapons”. The US and NATO felt, “well, let’s help these guys with weapons to defend themselves. We know they won’t last but at least, they would know that we tried”. Weapons were supplied, Ukraine soldiers used them well, and they lasted the night. The world was again surprised. And said, okay, let’s send them more weapons then.

    Zelensky wanted to drag NATO into the war by calling for a “no-flight zone”. If NATO declares a no-flight zone over Ukraine as they have freely done in some warring territories, it means they will shoot down any Russian aircraft in Ukraine’s air space. If they do that, Putin has an excuse to attack the US or any NATO country. That will result in an escalation because NATO will have to fight back. That is simply World War III because North Korea and other Russian friends can join in. NATO said it’s not the wise thing to do.

    Meanwhile, more defensive weapons began to pour in. Note the word “defensive”. Ukraine has not shot down a fly in Russia since the start of the war. If they do, Russia has an excuse to wipe out Ukraine from the map with more sophisticated weapons. So far, they’ve only been defending.

    More support rained into Ukraine on the following day. Foods, basic needs, transportation for fleeing citizens into other European countries especially Poland, the next-door neighbour. Russia was going to cut Ukraine’s internet. They ran to Elon Musk the richest man who has a satellite in the space for help, he gave them under 24-48 hours. Supports and cheering everywhere. People volunteered to go fight for them from various countries as well.

    NATO decided to join the battle but indirectly. Aside from supplying weapons, they supplied intelligence and training. Intelligence is key to winning any war! It is reported that it is NATO that reveals to Ukraine where the Russian army is, they tell them where to shoot and when to shoot. That way, they have reported the killing of up to eight major army generals of Russia. That’s unprecedented.

    Europe and the USA also started slamming economic bans, travel bans and especially targeted bans on Russian billionaires hoping those billionaires will influence Putin’s decision. Even private companies banned Russia. It was enormous.

    The toughest of all the bans is the OIL BAN. I told you that Europe is dependent on Russian oil. The US is also a major customer. Banning the oil would mean starving yourself while trying to make your enemy suffer. Putin had thought that they can’t do it since the war will be over in a few days anyway. But the longer it takes, the more the pressure on those countries to act selflessly. Biden took the bold step. Some other European and NATO countries followed suit. Yet, in most quarters, it is still a partial ban and not a total ban. And they still buy the oil through third parties. Like they won’t buy from Russia but can buy from a third party who bought from Russia. However, the ban led to increasing in demand, shortage in supply thereby, increase in price. This affects every country and every man in the world.

    Negotiation is always the twin in every war. It is believed that war could only end on the table. Ukraine and Russia began to discuss. Russia listed her demands- “give us Crimea officially, the land we seized from you the other time. Also, allow those guys who have been trying to break away to go in peace. And also, forget about your dream of joining NATO. And lastly, we don’t want you to have military again”. Russia quickly erased that last one and replaced it with, “your military should be neutral, it should have nothing to do with NATO or other country’s military”.

    At the beginning of the negotiation, Ukraine was ready to succumb. They told Russia, we will forgo NATO ambition. We will look into those guys that want to break away provided we can address the needs of those living there that wish to stay with Ukraine. The piece of land you stole, you know we can’t give you. We may just pretend that it’s yours but we won’t make it official.

    As the negotiation was on, the war was on and Ukraine was making gains. At least, they were beating back Russian troops and have a large support base. I believe they started backtracking on succumbing at that point.

    I should tell you about the approach of Russia in this war. Russia didn’t want to wipe out Ukraine. That will be too much and unforgivable. They only want to oppress them and wear them out by destroying their country, the buildings and kill people to order to pressurize the government to surrender and say, “it’s enough, we can’t take it anymore”. If Russia has it’s way, they also want to seize the capital, remove or assassinate the president and install another person. But Ukraine’s president seems to have a coconut head. His statement has been, ” you have to kill the last man. You have started already, you must kill us all”.

    In all sincerity, the world powers and NATO especially could help Ukraine negotiate its way out quickly. They just need to give Russia some concession here and there. But they are not ready to do that for some reasons:

    “At this point, if we give Putin what he wants, he would think he is smart. He could do the same for another country tomorrow.”

    “If Ukraine is ready to fight, why should we stop them? Let’s see how much Russia can go”. We may even use the window to study Russia to know their weak points against future wars”.

    When a teacher is beating a student, the teacher also gets tired. NATO believes that Russia is getting tired too of the loss at the war and the sanctions. “Let’s allow them to suffer for long so they won’t even try such again ever in their life”.

    Lastly, they are like, ” what tells you that Ukraine will not even win this war. We thought they would surrender in 7days but it’s over 70 days already and they are still standing. They should hold on a little more.

    What’s your TAKE AND best advice for UKRAINE?

  • UKRAINE-RUSSIAN WAR (1) by Pst.Ife Adetona

    UKRAINE-RUSSIAN WAR (1) by Pst.Ife Adetona

    Ukraine (UKN) is a country in the backyard of Russia. Russia is the largest country in terms of land size. Almost thrice the size of the other 49 countries in Europe. If you divide Africa into two, Russia will take more than half.

    Ukraine had said, “we want to join NATO”.
    Russia said, ” you don’t dare”.
    But who are you to tell us what to do?
    Okay, try it!
    If we try it, what will you do?
    We will seize your land and dispose of your government.
    You can’t do that. That has never happened in modern history.

    Ukraine began to move papers and documents to join NATO, while Russia began to move its trucks and military to attack Ukraine.

    When NATO was asked, “if Russia attack Ukraine today, what will you do?” NATO said, “that will be unfortunate but since they are yet to formally join us, they are on their own”. Analysts believed that was the green light 💡 Putin, Russia’s President needed. He moved him and began his attack.

    But what is NATO and why is Putin bothered about them?

    After WWII (World War 2), the world became something like an action film where you have the protagonist countries and the antagonist countries. Both may appear to be friends but they are quietly preparing for World War III so it does not meet them unaware. You can call the protagonists the good boys and the other, bad boys. The good boys are so-called in the world scene because they are more democratic and loudly advocate for human rights.

    The good boys decided to form a military alliance called North Atlantic Treaty Organisation(NATO) with an oath, “an injury to one is an injury to all”. This alliance as of today includes the USA, Canada, UK, France, Germany and over 25 other countries.

    Those you may refer to as the antagonists (note- in another context, they may not be so-called) are mainly North Korea, China and Russia. Each of these countries is very powerful on its own and though they do not form a military alliance, they are posed to assist each other in case of an escalation. For instance, North Korea had told her army to be on alert to support Russia if the war escalates. Unlike other powerful nations, China had refused to sanction Russia for the ongoing war.

    Most other countries may not openly side with either the protagonists or antagonists but each body language has already determined where they belong should there be a WWIII. Nigeria for instance is posed to go with the UK & US which are members of NATO. Mali and Libya on the other hand are friends with Russia.

    Looking at the strength and size of Russia and the role it played in WWII, you can safely say that NATO was created to contain Russia’s dominance across the world.

    Side note, those free or neutral countries can also switch lanes anytime if the weather favours them. For instance, if a president wants to clutch on to power longer than it’s due democratically, he could run to Russia for protection because the good boys will not welcome him. Russia is usually the rally point for such because it has nothing to lose. It has oil in abundance and Europe’s continent used to and still depends largely on her oil. China may not support such with full chest because they have many competitive goods to sell to America and other countries. They needed to play nice. North Korea on the other line is an isolated country. They don’t have the economic capacity to help.

    OKAY! But I still don’t get why Russia is after Ukraine.

    It’s simple. Russia shares a border with Ukraine. If Ukraine joins NATO, it means NATO can place its army in the backyard of Russia. If there is a war, say WWIII, NATO, especially the USA can easily strike Russia.

    WOW! Now I get but is it just that?

    That’s not all. There are several countries that surround Russia that are not NATO members. If Ukraine joins freely, others will be boldened to join. Meaning, NATO will surround Russia making it easy to be wiped out if there’s a future war.

    OHHHHHOKAYYYYY! But why can’t Ukraine just stay neutral then?

    Well, Russia wants all the country that surrounds her to either be under her or stay neutral. But they sometimes threaten these nations that don’t submit either partially or fully to them. For instance, in 2014, Russia entered Ukraine’s territory and seize a part called ” Crimea”. Ukraine can’t fight back because they were weaker. Like, they stole from them and they can’t even fight back.

    That’s not all. There is some part of Ukraine that wanted to have independence just like Biafra in Nigeria at a time. These guys have been fighting the Ukraine government for years. They are not that powerful but guess who is backing them? Russia.

    So, Ukraine wants to join NATO for protection. Because once they join, if Russia kills a goat in Ukraine, NATO will retaliate. That way, Ukraine will be almost as powerful as Russia itself.

    So, Russia moved in intending to seize Ukraine’s capital like they seized Crimea years ago but, they were shocked at what they met. The world was also shocked at Ukraine’s resistance. I should tell you the details of the war especially the first days in the second part.

    But for the records, Russia is fighting Ukraine to make them an example to other neutral countries around them but as of today, these countries are dead scared and feel that it is best they join NATO for protection. Two of them at least, Sweden and Finland have started making plans. Maybe they feel this is the best time since Russia couldn’t invade one country successfully, it can’t invade three at a time.

  • DEVELOPING READING HABIT

    DEVELOPING READING HABIT

    😰I’ve been trying to be a good reader but I do lose my zeal a long way

    😰I planned to be reading 2 books monthly, but this is the 7th month of the year, and I’ve not been able to read up to 5 books

    😰 I used to push myself to read but books are always boring to me

    😰 I’ve done everything in my capacity to be a good reader but all are not just working.

    These and many more are the complaints of so many great minded people outside there. There was a time I was in this mess as well, but when I discovered that for me to be great in life book reading is not an option, If Jesus, Daniel, Paul, Luke, and many great men in the Bible age and our century are functions of book, and I wish to be enlisted in their ranks, then I must consciously look for the way to develop the reading culture in me.

    It was the 7th of January, 2020, My Spiritual father(Pastor Ife Adetona) told me that he just finished reading the 11th book (big books)of the year and this stroke a chord in me and I took up the challenge via some steps he gave me. And by the grace of God, I read 53 books in that same year and since then reading at least 60 books (excluding the books of the Bible) in a year has been my yearly goal.

    #1. KNOW THAT THERE ARE TYPES OF BOOKS

    You must firstly sustain the understanding that we have 2 major types of books, it’s either Mini or Voluminous books, for you to start developing this habit, don’t start by moving closer to voluminous books, start with mini-books.

    Mini books are books that won’t take your time before you finish reading them, they are mostly less than 100pages with very bold fonts inside but voluminous books are books that will take your time, you can even go on days before you finish them, it mostly more than 100 pages and some are less than 100 pages but with very small font size and can take you days as well. Starting the development of a reading culture with voluminous books is like saying you want to start your academics from tertiary institutions and neglecting the primary and secondary schools.

    #2. UNDERSTANDING CONCEPTS

    What some people use to hunt for is to read books, you must first identify your area of interest and go for it first. Are you starting with Spiritual books? Which concept is your area of interest? Faith? Prosperity?Healing? Deliverance? Prayer? Other areas of interest may be your personal development, human and resource management, leadership etc.
    The understanding of the concept you need will magnetise you to the books to read at a particular period.

    #3. AUTHORS

    While developing the reading habits, go for interesting authors, some authors use too much grammar which will always make book reading boring to you. You may want to ask how are you going to know interesting authors? Go to the introduction or the first chapter of any book, you’ll know how boring or interesting the book is going to be. The first book I firstly finished reading was “The Communion of Holy Spirit” By Pastor Ife Adetona.it was the first page of the book that created a craving for the whole book in me.

    You can also go for recommended authors, many people love listening to messages, when you heard a preacher recommend an author, It will also help you in developing reading habits. Same with Popular authors as well.

    #4. INTENTIONALITY

    In developing this habit, you have to know that it’s your responsibility, so you have to be intentional about it, to be intentional about it, take note of these;

    A. Set a specific goal on book reading, and this goal must be fact and not fat, saying I want to read 50 books in a month is a fat goal, the fact goal is the one that is attainable when coupled with your schedule. This calls for intentionally sitting down and planning it out.
    B. It must be Time-bound; to realize your goal monthly you have to set a daily goal for it, which means that there must not be a day that will go without you opening to read a book, in actualizing this, you must decide to be reading a certain number of chapters per day or schedule a particular number of minutes for book reading daily, E.g I must read for 1hour every day or I must cover 2 chapters daily out of a 10 chapters book.

    C. Have a reading mentor: The role of a reading mentor is that you will be accountable to such fellow, S/he must be able to query you if you didn’t report to them on daily basis.

    #5. READING TECHNOLOGY

    With Reading technology, you can read faster using a reading application, the one I use mostly is @voice, just type it on Google play, and you’ll see the image beneath this paragraph there, just download it and do the necessary settings. With the reading application, you can increase and decrease the reading speed rate and cover many pages in fewer minutes.

    #6.SOFT COPIES vs HARD COPIES

    Some people planned to start reading books but couldn’t start because of money, the money attached to soft copies is free compared to the amount on hard copies, Even there are some soft copies that you can even get for free. Visit Fountain publisher through available links to access some books of your choice.

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  • SADOZ @ 8

    SADOZ @ 8

    When I say that SADOZ does not rely on any mortal being dead or alive for its financial running from inception to date, I am not trying to boast. I am simply saying to my spiritual children in the ministry and mentees that a ministry can be fully God-sponsored.

    No debts
    No side hustle as the president.
    I resigned into the full time with zero naira as personal savings.
    No rich parent or sibling as back-up
    No financier in sight.
    We were mostly students!
    No penny or dime as foreign aid to date.
    No letter of help
    No sponsor!
    No private visit to any mortal man to request sponsorship.

    List all the impossibilities.

    When God showed me where we are going as a ministry, I said- this cannot be run from a man’s pocket, we’d better not start with it. Our future cannot be run from a man’s pocket, we better learn how to trust God now in our day of little beginning.

    Yesterday, while observing a worship session the Lord spoke to us through prophecy. He said (paraphrased): “thank you, there are many that I have given this mandate but depended on man and so they failed but you have not relied on a man to sponsor it but GOD”.

    Everything you see in SADOZ today and that you will always see is FULLY & SOLELY GOD FUNDED. We have a slogan here: ” if you miss, we will miss your face but we can never ever miss your face”. ALL ON GOD.

    Ife Adetona

    SADOZ President