Husband, (no matter what or her shortcoming) love your wife sacrificially as Christ loves the Church to the point that He died for her.

Wife, Respect your husband, irrespective of whatever, even if you pay the bills. Call him Lord, deliberately use “Ẹ” for him at times. Emulate Sarah, your mother who callled her husband “my Lord”.

Side note- this is for you, if you are a child of God and you marry a child of God.